2021.10.23 13:48 EDPostRequests Request: Advice on supporting my partner
I'm wanting some general advice on if there is anything more I can do to support my wife with her eating disorder. We have reached a stage in our relationship where we are wanting to start a family, however, unfortunately she is not ovulating due to her weight and the amount of exercise she does. I can't begin to imagine what it's like for her trying to deal with things and I've done my best over the years to try get a better understanding through research, books and talking things through with her.
I have found it incredibly difficult to feel of any use to her because of how defensive she can be and how much she pushes me away when I feel like all I am doing is trying to be supportive. She has refused to see a professional due to past experiences and while I beleive she would really benefit from it I respect it's ultimately her choice. We have tried working through some ED workbooks and while this occasionally seemed to result in productive conversations it also caused arguments at other times, between us we made the decision for me to take a step back and let her try to tackle things on her own. I felt like while I wanted to sit and talk things through she seemed to want to find something to argue with me about to the point where she just made things up I hadn't done.
She has taken on a new diet plan from the PT at the gym she goes to and I am proud of her for taking these steps. So far though she has actually lost weight since starting it and I find it difficult to keep my positivity up. I'm extremely worried that in order for her to gain weight the adjustments to her diet and exercise routine will be far too difficult for her to take on alone.
Unfortunately I can see resentment starting to build up on both sides of the relationship. For me when I see her leave the house to exercise every day it causes me to feel deflated. I think for her I'm the one person "getting in the way" so to speak of her ED behaviour and the ED being allowed to do what it wants for an easy life if that makes sense.
Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated as i'm incredibly worried for the future if something doesn't change soon.
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